I could give you a checklist of must-haves to throw an epic grad party, but a gazillion blog posts already exist with those tips. Instead, let’s focus on the intangibles that you and your senior will cherish long after the party decorations have been thrown in the trash and you’ve had your fill of leftovers.
The month of May is jam packed with allllll of the end of the school year events and activities. It’s a whirlwind amidst time that is already flying by at what feels like the speed of light. You’re desperately grasping for some–any–quality time with your senior before they launch into this next exciting phase of their life journey.
As much as they may want to spend every minute of their free time with friends, they still need you, and family time is a non-negotiable. Be intentional about scheduling time together. Do something they enjoy, and connect. Set aside time every day to see them face to face. See how they’re really doing as they approach this major milestone and transition. As excited as they may be about wrapping up this part of their adventure, they may have some reservations about jumping into their next step. Hear them out and give them a safe space to voice their expectations as well as concerns.
Every kid is different. Some may come home and give a complete rundown of their day while others hold things in until the lights are out and you’re saying goodnight, and they say, “Can you stay a little longer?” You are the best parent for them. Be in tune with what they may need, and then be there, however that looks for your family.
As parents, we can get completely engulfed in our daily responsibilities and caring for others. Don’t forget to take care of yourself. Emotions can run high as you’re preparing to let your senior leave the nest. Self-care is just as important as being there for them along the way. Whether that’s quiet time alone, an adventure with friends, talking it out with a counselor, or treating yourself to a day of relaxation, just do it.
When the big day comes, relish the moment together. Congratulations! You’ve seen a child through high school graduation. The best is yet to come.
XO, Katie